COMMUNICATION GAP
Communication gap ,the thing which makes a lot of difference in every interaction we are involved in. This gap if not bridged soon leads to undesired consequences in a person's life ,indeed it may affect more than one person. When does this arise? Why does this arise? These queries will be clarified if we give a slight thought to it. As this is more or less related and infers to relationships people involve in, a parent and child kinship seems a good instance to be started with.
In the present scenario where there is a vigorous competition in the market for educational and job opportunities it is quite common that children spend most of their educational years at a place away from their homes. Naturally ,most of the parents have some apprehensions about their kids' life over there. They are haunted with a feeling of insecurity that their son or daughter may fall into wrong tracks and deceive them. Especially in the case of girls from orthodox kind of families parents do worry a little more for they think that girls are vulnerable to many adverse situations in this vicious society. Their apprehensions may be partially true but eventually some of the parents take fault decisions. They impose restrictions on them instead of letting them know their real intentions. This in fact reduces the emotional closeness and intimacy of the children with their parents that hinders them from sharing some of their ideas,experiences and doubts. The painful feeling that their parents don't trust them truly hurts their tender hearts. Slowly,the so called communication gap comes into picture. Ultimately, they fail to share the most important aspects of their life may it be their love, or their worries with their class mates or their academic issues. Both of them are bound to repent for it because of the abdicable followings. To avoid all such mishaps there should be a healthy interaction between the parents and children. Parents should instead assure their children that they are by their side come what may. They should provide a friendly atmosphere for them to present their inner thoughts. This actually makes them more comfortable and will not let any idea of betraying their parents to creep in their minds. Moreover, parents should come out of the conservative webs that they have built around them and look into the cosmopolitan world with a comprehensive vision for the betterment of their children.
Moving on to a wife and husband relationship , it is the most sensitive of all , in either of the cases of love marriage or arranged marriage. Although there is enough love between two people it may not assure a dispute free life. They may be able to make their life comfortable with all materialistic luxuries but sometimes they fail to notice and offer the expected concern to their mates. Ego, jealousy and likewise things may peep through their lives. Many things remain unsaid between the two people and pile up as the junk in a store room. By the time it is realized that it actually needs some cleaning the labour is too much I.e;they are separated to a quite greater distances in the long run the very root cause being the communication gap. To err is human and to rectify the error is humanity. A small note of apology,in other words a five letter sorry will keep up a relation at its good while ego destroys everything. This is applicable between friends as well.
On a concluding note, it is evident that any unsolved and unsaid issues between people damage the sensitive bonds between them and invite uncalled problems to the picture. So, never make your life and others' life too to be messed up with problems on account of a negligence in clearing up petty yet bothering things. Expressing things casts away the load of emotional torture and keeps retains your loved ones always lovable.
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